You are so beautiful – from the inside out, You’re a breath of fresh air, the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen, you’re so smart, I could stare into your lovely eyes all day, your smile makes my heart glad.
These are words of endearment that make me so happy. They may be true, or not. Someone might just be buttering you and I up to be served breakfast. But, it’s always super duper to be complimented.
Choosing to accept these words could have the capacity of making your happiness sky-rocket in those moments. Meanwhile, even if you consider them to be clichés, the good laugh you also get, is medicine for your soul.
You could be at a place where you feel like, the light at the end of the tunnel might have died, or better days are too far off. There might be no fight left in you and what is left of your hope, just a flicker. I’m quite sure that a compliment still stares something up inside of you and words which you consider to be true, if spoken to you, could revive your dying spirit.
Although, most times, we’re the architects of own stress and depression. We tell ourselves how bad we are at things, how inadequate we are in life, how it’s our fault that our stars haven’t aligned and how possible it is for things to go awry, even when we’re having a good day. Frankly, it might not be totally our faults, as the media and social media paints pictures of what our lives should be like at certain stages, for us.
However, these are the false truths that we make our hearts believe. Causing us to miss the bigger picture – the little benefits we’re loaded with, daily. In hindsight, the culmination of these seemingly little things, make up the ‘BIG thing’.
More often than not, this also happens in my own life. But I came to a realization recently, call it an epiphany even. The truest truth I know, is God’s word concerning my life.
The Bible is a powerful tool for me and my journey in this world. Amidst all the unpredictabilities, I know that God has given me all I need for life and for godly living. If I know that there are no truer words for me than these, I can’t be overwhelmed by the faux truths that my mind conjures up.
So, when I am burdened by the lies of my heart, I confess that; I am saved — a child of God(Gal. 3:28, Rom. 10:19); I’m beautiful — a spec, if I may (Ps. 139:14); I have love that nothing can come between (Rom. 8: 38–39); I have a good future and a hope (Jer. 29:11), things are working together for my good (Rom. 8:28); I have direction and wisdom (Prov. 4:11).
I’ve found my “True truths” and they’re also true for you. I hope you embrace them too.
Yours Truly,
Favour.